Words of Life

by Debi on July 13, 2010

Last year about this time – I bought 2 wrought iron gates at a yard sale for a couple of dollars each! Thrilled with my new ‘find’ I placed them in just the right ‘spots’ – one in front and one in back. I pictured ivy scaling up the gates and gracing our home with that stately look of stability and comfort.

Once the gates were in place, I bought the best English ivy plants I could find, tucked them into the ground and waited. I knew from experience that ivy’s a ‘slow grow’ and the benefits would be a season away – I could wait.

The months went by and the ivies ‘hung out’ (literally) and even survived the bitter winter. Once the sun came out, the vine in front began to sprout – winding up the post in a poetic, dance. In contrast, the vine out back, remained unchanged. Although alive, it seemed … dwarfed.

Come spring, I realized the source of my dilemma. The first vine was planted in full range of the sprinkler system, set to brush the shrubs with a soft spray of nourishment on a consistent basis. The latter vine was placed just outside the reach of life-giving water. Although I’d carefully placed the ivies out of the elements and hand-watered regularly – I’d overlooked the obvious.

This lesson reminds me so much of mothering. We prayerfully place our children’s lives in the best place we know of, plant them where they will prosper and protect them from the harshness of life. We watch and we pray …

Water is life giving – like our words.

But, if our children’s lives are void of encouragement, heavy on works and light on grace – they dwarf, in their souls. In contrast, if we wash them with the water of the word (God’s word) and shower them with words of life – fitly spoken in due season – they grow.

The visible realities of waterless growth – are obvious. The hearty fruit of a well watered plant are as well. We want our children to be, ‘like a well-watered garden’ (Isaiah 58:11). May our words line up with God’s words – so we can give them that opportunity.

“But blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him. He will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.” Jeremiah 17:7-8

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Janette@Janette's Sage July 13, 2010 at 10:11

Yes and amen!

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Jessica July 14, 2010 at 10:11

Thank you Debi. Your post speaks to me very personally. I don’t know how to overcome the struggles I’m having but I know that Jesus does. I will have to reread your encouraging and insightful thoughts often.

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Cheryl @ Treasures from a Shoebox July 14, 2010 at 10:11

Beautiful post! It seems I’m always reminding the children (as well as myself!), “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” as I encourage them to use edifying words when speaking with one another. “But, if our children’s lives are void of encouragement, heavy on works and light on grace – they dwarf, in their souls” ~what a true and powerful statement! Thanks Debi :)

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Southern Gal July 14, 2010 at 10:11

I really love the encouragement I get here. Thank you for your words fitly spoken in due season. Your words are like apples of gold in pictures of silver.

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Gwen T July 14, 2010 at 10:11

“Water is life giving – like our words” – ouch. How incredibly convicting. One of the memory verses we review at our house is Psa. 19:14 – Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in THY sight, O Lord my Rock and my Redeemer.”

If I would always measure my words by the standard in that verse, then they would always be “life-giving” to the people who hear them.

Thanks for this excellent reminder.

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Crystal Roberts July 14, 2010 at 10:11

I really relate to this. Even though our children they are so hungry for kind and loving words, they actually seem to blossom hen they receive them. hat a beautiful way of reminding me to give them waht they need, I will definitely meditate on this truth today and put it into practice!

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Priscilla July 14, 2010 at 10:11

Mom, this post is precious. And the cool thing is that you don’t just talk about this – you live it. I would know. :) Love you. Oh and…nice picture! ;)

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Hannah Avery July 14, 2010 at 10:11

Beautifully said, and so true!

-Hannah

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Sheri July 14, 2010 at 10:11

Debi,
I’m laughing. I just made a post about “Weeds and Fruit” and then clicked over to your blog! Oh how our Father can teach us from things that He grows and cultivates! Thank you for the encouragement to encourage those I love!
Sheri

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Danielle July 15, 2010 at 10:11

i think this can be applied to the context of marriage as well! words of life and encouragement and grace can really make a huge impact on a person. it can change a heart. thank you for giving us life. :)

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